So, the overwhelming advice I got (I mean from EVERYBODY except Marsh--sorry honey) was to drop an email thanking him for a nice evening and suggesting a second date.  So, that's what I've done.  I did that this morning; and so now, more of the waiting game.  I really just wish I knew one way or the other. 
Of course, self-doubt has started creeping in and I've started wondering if he didn't have such a good time with me.  Which leads me to wonder how on earth I ever could have mis-read the entire evening like that.  I really thought we hit it off.  This whole dating thing, so not fun.  Well, let me rephrase that.  The date was great, wonderful, a lot of fun.  This part sucks.  This waiting, this insecurity, this not knowing.
05 July 2007
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Deeeep breaths dear....deep breaths....start emailing a new profile to take your mind off it just for fun. And remember -- he could be thinking the same thing you are!
Sorry I didn't get to call -- the T-Family Hurricane came into town & just settled down -- seriously, I put a beer into my mom's hand b/c she looked so overwhelmed by us all.
TG, waiting, eh?
I think you did the right thing.. if both of you rely on your suspicions no-one's gonna go anywhere.. romance isn't an entirely spontaneous thing, but it requires a great deal of being true to yourself.. you enjoyed the night? let him know that you did.
Hope things go well..
Regards,
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